Phyllis Lonko Leach


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Bangor - Phyllis (Colpitts) Lonko Leach passed away on June 5, 2019. She was born March 1, 1921 at home on Fruit Street in Bangor, daughter of Archie and Ina (Barchard) Colpitts. She was the youngest of three children. Her mother was a homemaker and her father worked for the Maine Central Railroad.
Phyllis attended Bangor High School where she was a member of the All Bangor girls' field hockey team and the debate club. She graduated from Bangor High School in 1938 and from Beal Business College in 1939. She became a secretary at Beneficial Finance and then she worked for Maine Central Railroad until 1941 when she left to work for the War Department at the Pentagon in Washington, D.C. At that time, she met Corporal Louis Lonko on a blind date and they were married in 1944. She had to stop work for the War Department because a married woman could not have a position there. Lou was in the US Army Air Force and after their marriage, he served in North Africa during World War II. Phyllis returned to Bangor in 1944 where she worked at Viner Shoe. After WW II, the couple moved to Wilmington, DE where Phyllis worked for Dupont. Louis had a brief hiatus from the military and they returned to Bangor where their daughter, Sandra was born. Louis later rejoined the US Army.
Phyllis traveled as a military wife so the family lived in various places including Albuquerque, NM and St, Louis, MO. She and Lou endured several separations when she was not able to accompany him during WW II, two tours of duty in Korea, and one in Vietnam.
Phyllis worked all her life, including for the Merrill Trust Co., followed by 27 years as a legal secretary at Mitchell and Ballou until she retired in 1990. Locally she lived in Brewer, East Corinth, and Orrington. The family also had a camp on Moosehead Lake where they spent summers.
In 2001, she married Harry Leach at the East Orrington Congregational Church. They spent winters in Florida.
Phyllis was baptized in 1931 a member at the First Baptist Church where she served at one time as a Sunday school teacher, sang in the choir, and was a deaconess. She was also a long-time member of the Order of Eastern Star, Tuscan Chapter #198. She enjoyed fishing, gardening, sewing, jigsaw puzzles, and routinely played beano Phyllis was extremely devoted to her family who loved her very much.
Phyllis is survived by a daughter Sandra L. Stolt of Arlington, VA, a grandson David R. Stolt and his wife Julie of Augusta, ME and great grandchildren Jordan J. Stolt of Hallowell, ME, Anna Rose Stolt of Augusta and Robert M. Stolt of Augusta. Also surviving are niece Bonnie Puls and her husband Larry of Bangor and nephew Allan Colpitts and his wife Stephanie of Bluffton, SC and their extended families, sister-in-law Doris Adams of Bucksport, brother-in-law Norris Leach and his wife Gladys of Orland, and stepchildren Joseph and Linda Leach of Orland, ME, Cindy and husband Gregory Smith, and Kathryn Smith of Orrington, ME.
Phyllis was predeceased by her parents, her first husband Lou in 1999, her second husband Harry M. Leach in 2005, and her two brothers - Horace and his wife Cynthia and Keith and his wife Francis.
The family is extremely grateful to the staff of St. Joseph Hospice with a special thanks to Dana Dickson. The family also wants to thank the staff at Loving Touch in-home Care.
Funeral services will be held at 2:30 p.m. Wednesday, June 12, 2019 at Brookings-Smith, 133 Center St., Bangor.
In lieu of flowers, gifts in memory of Phyllis may be sent to St. Joseph Healthcare Foundation, PO Box 1638, Bangor, ME 04402-1638. Condolences to the family may be expressed at
Published on June 7, 2019
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Cheri Condon
Jun 12, 2019
I only knew Miss Phyllis for the past seven years. She was a sweet lady and I do mean lady. Phyllis responded to the littlest of kindness' with thank you notes or phone calls. She came to enjoy hugs from me and that enhanced my life.

She was a dinner mate to my mother, LaVada Fron and Sonja. They enjoyed each others company and found common ground over the dinner table.

I offer her family my condolences. I miss her and I know my Mom does too. May she receive all of God's blessings.
Kimberly A Ripley
Jun 10, 2019
My condolences for your loss. My eye was drawn to the name Colpitts, and I recalled fond memories of my late great-grandmother's dear friend in Bangor several decades ago. Her name was Lillian Cole, and she and Ina attended the First Baptist Church on Center Street together.
Carolyn LeTendre
Jun 09, 2019
I am so sorry to hear this news, Sandy. We all loved your Mom so much. We have so many memories of time spent together. We so enjoyed her visits with us during the winter time. My Mom loved her so much. Sending prayers and thoughts for your sweet smiles to return soon. Hugs.
Don and Nancy
Jun 08, 2019
What a lovely and moving memorial for a special lady. We are grateful that we got to know her but learned so much more about her life through reading this. May she Rest In Peace in the arms of a loving God.