Jane May Lord
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Surry - Jane May Lord passed away after a brief illness on February 6, 2020. She was born in Charleston, West Virginia on July 23rd, 1937 to O.E. "Sike" and Myrtle May.

Jane grew up on her grandparent's farm on Coal River in St. Albans, West Virginia. She cherished her memories of life on the farm, swimming in the river and being surrounded by her large extended family.

Jane was voted the most popular girl and the most winning smile in the class of 1955 at St. Albans High School. After high school, she worked for Bell Atlantic phone company. In the fall of '55, Jane's sister told her a nice-looking young man from Maine was visiting his sister who lived next door. Jane and her husband of 62 years, Jerry Lord, had their first date that afternoon, attending a high school football game and their second that evening, going to a movie in Charleston. Jerry returned home to Maine and soon packed up his '49 Ford and moved to St. Albans to be with the love of his life. They were married in '57 and moved to Ellsworth in '59.

For almost 40 years, Jane taught children at Surry School and was unofficially crowned "Queen of Surry School." She touched the lives of hundreds of children, sharing her love, hugs, and smiles freely. She retired in 2011 and up to the time of her passing, continued to visit the school weekly to read to "her kids," coming home after each visit talking about the many hugs she received.

Jane loved kayaking, swimming and boating on the bay with Jerry. She was very active in the community, serving on the Surry Planning Board and the Board of Selectmen. She was a founding member of the Surry Historical Society and served as President for many years. She was a member of the Surry Community Improvement Association, Surry Garden Club, East Surry Rural Hall Association, and served as Chairman of the House Committee at the Black House for several years.

Jane was a devoted wife, a selfless mother and a loving grandmother. She was pre-deceased by her parents and her sister Gail May King. She is survived by her husband, Gerald "Jerry" Lord; her daughter Joan Lord Kearns and husband Jim Kearns of Ellsworth; her daughter Julie Lord and husband Tim Crowley of Blue Hill; her sister Angela Sellers and husband Cam Sellers of Manteo, NC; granddaughter Allie McKowen; step-grandchildren Thea and Eliza Crowley and Andrew, Ryan and Patrick McKowen; special cousins Susan Varney of Nashville, TN and Debbie Sutton of St. Albans, WV; nephew Andrew King of Cross Lanes, WV; and many friends including her dearest friends, Linda Conley and Elizabeth Ehrlenbach.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Shriners Hospitals for Children, 51 Blossom St. Boston, MA 02114.

All are welcome to attend a service 3pm, Tuesday, February 11, 2020 at Jordan-Fernald, 113 Franklin Street., Ellsworth. Condolences may be expressed at jordanfernald.com.
Published on February 9, 2020


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Jaime Willis Hunt
Feb 11, 2020
Mrs. Lord was the best Education Technician in the history of Surry Elementary School. Growing up I had trouble pronouncing my letter L's. Mrs. LORD being the kind hearted woman and amazing teacher she is Mrs. Lord came up with a rime for me to remember how to pronounce my L's. I still remember the rime to this day it went as Fallows: Look Look You Dirty Crook You Stole Your Mother's Pocketbook. This and so many more wonderful memories I'll treasure forever. She was an amazing woman She is and will always be the soul of Surry Elementary School to me. Rest easy Mrs. Lord until we meet in heavens classroom. Long live the queen of Surry Elementary. To the Lord family I'm so sorry for your... loss. Words cannot describe what she means to all of us kids.Read more
Sally Bunker Lagoy, North Carolina
Feb 10, 2020
What a wonderful couple you made, Jerry. Think of Jane with great fondness for she was always there with her smile for our class reunions. Take time to move through your sadness. Your family and friends will understand your pain. Love to you. Sally Lagoy.
Antonio Planchart
Feb 10, 2020
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Ms. Lord was a favorite of my two daughters, who would come home to tell me of the Shel Silverstein books she had read to them. In the spirit of The Giving Tree, she gave a wonderful gift to so many children: the gift of good memories.
Patricia BealJ
Feb 10, 2020
To Jerry & family I am so sorry for your
Loss Jane & igo back many years I wish I could come to to her service but I. am living in Fl
Michelle Caddoo Douglass
Feb 10, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss. She was a wonderful lady that made all of us "kids" feel special. Can still hear her singing "when your ears hang low..."
Maria Higgins
Feb 09, 2020
My deepest sympathy to you, Jerry, and your family. Jane was a lovely lady, very friendly and always smiling. May time and warm memories help you through this difficult time.