Ingrid G. Graves
Aiken, SC. - Ingrid G. Graves, 72, passed away peacefully Monday, October 7th with family by her side at her home in South Carolina.
Ingrid was born July 11th, 1947, to Robert and Patricia Graves and was the first of 6 children.
In 1959, the family moved from Caribou to Presque Isle where she graduated from P.I.H.S. in 1966.
In June of 1978, she married Joseph Mesimer. Joe was a pilot for both Braniff and Continental airlines. They made their life together in Hawaii, Denver, Colorado, Houston, Texas and for the last 13 years in Aiken, South Carolina where they operated a cruise specialty business.
Though Ingrid had no children of her own, she took great pleasure in loving and spoiling her nieces and nephews and was a special aunt to all.
She was predeceased by her husband, Joseph Mesimer; her parents, Robert and Patricia Graves; and beloved nephews Logan and Connor Graves.
She is survived by her siblings, Sheila Bishop and her husband Kevin, Cynthia Wallace and her husband Michael, Robert Graves and his wife Lynne, Gregory Graves and his wife Rebecca and Michael Graves and his wife Sue; she is also survived by 12 nieces and nephews who she loved dearly.
There will be no services at this time. Interment will be at Fairmount Cemetery in the spring.
Published on October 9, 2019


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Michael Graves
Oct 13, 2019
A memorial tree was planted in memory of Ingrid G. Graves.  Plant a tree
Connie Staples
Oct 12, 2019
We were so sorry to hear of Ingrid’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all her family. 💞. Connie and Gregg
Nancy Porter Graves
Oct 10, 2019
Special thoughts Ingrid in our memories of younger times...blessings
going to family in your passing❣️❣️🙏🏻🙏🏻
Carolyn Rybnikar
Oct 10, 2019
I loved you both and am thankful for 20 years of friendship. Peace be with you.
Melinda Morrison
Oct 10, 2019
Sweet Ingrid! I treasure my memories of yours and Joe's kindness to me. We had so many fun moments and shared our love for our dogs with joy! I will miss you. I wish peace for your
wonderful, loving family during this difficult time!!
Tim and Mary Crowley
Oct 10, 2019
Our sincere condolences to the entire Graves family. Ingrid was a loyal friend for many years and she will be missed . I’ll miss our chats and texts and her sense of humor. She’s gone much too soon but is now with Joe and her much loved dogs. And pain free. Love you..